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Hiwalay ang Magulang

September 29, 2011

Hiwalay ang Magulang

 

(Sept 29, 2011-Miyerkules- Script na sinulat ni Alih Anso para sa programang “Buhay –buhay  ” (8:00-9:00 A.M) sa segment na “Gabay at Talakayang Pampamilya”. Host: Noralyn Bilual)

 

Host/Noralyn:  Epekto sa kabataan  ng hiwalay na magulang o ang tinatatawag broken marriages, ito ang muling tatalakayin  ni    Kaka Alih sa ating segment.

 

(PLAY-INTRO GABAY AT TALAKAYANG PAMPAMILYA)

 

Host/Noralyn:    Magandang umaga Kaka.?

 

Kaka Alih: Maganda ka pa sa umaga Noralyn, (LAUGHING).   Este magandang umaga din Noralyn,  (LAUGHING). Assallamu Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh, sa mga kapatid na Nanampalataya sa Islam o yaong mga kapatid na Muslim.

 

Noralyn,  bilang support sa programa ng  kampaniya laban sa pagsugpo sa Sex Trafficking of Children at kabataan, heto ang topic natin ngayon umaga Epekto sa kabataan  ng hiwalay na magulang o ang tinatatawag broken marriages. 

 

Sa ating pangangalap ng information,  nakakuha tayo ng mga kuwento at kasagutan mula sa mga kabataan:

 

“Hiwalay na kasi ang parents ko eh, kaya siguro nagkakaganito ako”.  kuwento ng isang estudyante na drop outs at palaging nasasangkot sa gulo.

 

“Sa totoo lang Kaka nararamdaman ko ang hinanakit at sakit ng damdamin   ng aking classmates na hindi nakagraduate dahil sa marami sa grades niya ang bumagsak. Papaano kasi, palagi  siyang absent mula ng mag-away at magkahiwalay ang kanyang mga magulang”. Pahayag naman ng classmates ni Dodoy.

 

Bakit ka naglayas Day, tanong ko sa isang nene na naglayas. Ang sagot ay: “di ko na masikmura ang ginagawa ni nanay, mula ng sila ay maghiwalay kay tatay, kong sinu-sinong lalaki ang kinakasama at iniaakyat sa bahay, nakakahiya. Minsan may isa siyang lalaki na manyak, pati ako gustong ..” never mind, bawal banggitin sa radio. (LAUGHING).

 

Alam mo Nancy, ako ay nagtataka kong  bakit maraming     mga mag asawang nag hihiwalay, naitanong ko tuloy sa aking sarili,  ito ba ang uso ngayon?

 

Host/Noralyn:    Napapansin ko din yan Kaka, matanong kita, ano ba ang mga dahilan at nag-hihiwalay ang mag-asawa?

 

Kaka Alih:  Actually maraming dahilan kung bakit ‘ang mag-asawa ay naghihiwalay, na di na sila   pwedeng mag sama sa iisang bubong.

 

Ang mga ibang dahilan ay si  mister o misis ay nangangaliwa. Kong minsan naman ay    issue tungkol sa pera.

 

Marami actually ang pwede nating banggitin but gusto ko ang pag-usapan natin ang epekto nito sa mga bata.  It’s about the son and daughters that are caught right in the middle, hindi po ba?

 

Konting di pagkakaunawan naghahamon na si Babae o si Lalaki, ng  hiwalay.

 

Alam mo Nor, minsan naiisip ko rin na parang ang selfish naman ng mga ganuong magulang.  Basta basta na lang mag-dedecide na maghihiwalay sila na di man lang inisip ang kahihinatnan ng kanilang   mga anak, na mapapalayo sila sa kanilang  mga magulang.

 

 Kuwento ng isang mag-aaral sa kanyang  classmates na di din nakapagtapos dahil naghiwalay ang mga magulang.

 

 “Alam mo Kaka, noong kami ay mga maliliit pa,  pag nag-aaway ang mga magulang naming,  lagi kaming ikinukulong sa isang kuwarto para  di naming marinig yung mga sigawan nila. Pero honestly pwede bang  di namin marinig ang kanilang sigawan eh high pitch masyado ang tono nila”  

 

Tuloy natin ang kuwento Nor, “natuloy  ang paghihiwalay  ng mga magulang namin dahil kinampihan ni Lola ang aking nanay.”

 

Kuwento naman ng isang tinedyer  na nakulong minsan dahil nasali sa rambol ng mga kabataan. “Pag   nag-aaway, ang aking tatay at nanay, akala mo ay may demolition squad na dumating, dahil may nagliliparan namga  gamit sa bahay,  hagis ng plato,  dito, hagis doon, murahan dito, murahan doon. At dahil dito,  di nagtagal nalaman ko na  lamang may kinakasama na  si Tatay  na ibang babae, at itonarin  ang dahilan ng kanilang pag-hihiwalay.  Kaya heto, lumaki akong ganito, basagulero, bilang   pagrerebelde na rin sa aking mga magulang. Ang ginagawa ko para mapansin lang nila, inom dito, inom doon, yosi dito,yosi doon.”

 

Ito  ang mga bunga ng mga batang  galit    sa sarili nilang  mga magulang,  sa mga batang hiwalay ang parents.  

 

Sa panahong ngayon parang padami ng padami ang mga nasisirang pamilya. Napapansin ba ninyo?

 

Kaya nararapat na magbago na tayo mga pare at mare.. Tandaan mga kapatid, tayo ay nagsumpaan sa harap ng altar, na magsasama hanggang kamatayan, till death do us part…nasaan ang  pangakong  yaon? hanggang dito na lamang.. hanggang sa susunod na kabanata.. sa ating  nakaka.. ni Kaka Alih.

 

Host/Noralyn: Alam ninyo  mga kapatid, kong sakali mang may hindi pagkakaunawaan ng mag-asawa bakit hindi aayusin, huwag tayong padalos dalos, kong sakaling  mang naging matabang na ang inyong pagmamahalan, isipin  na may mga anak na mawawalan ng gabay sa araw-araw,  dahil ang kanilang mga  magulang ay hiwalay.

   

(PLAY-EXTRO GABAY AT TALAKAYANG PAMPAMILYA)

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